My Life In My Own Way

My Life In My Own Way

Tuesday, November 10, 2015

Pretty much says it all...



            Although by rights, it should be "Hoomans..."

Tuesday, September 29, 2015

Wednesday, September 10, 2014

Onward and Upward or How to (Legally) Cut the Cable Cord

So granted it's only been two weeks or so but things are really picking up here at Chez Himself. I know I'm doing better (especially disposition wise), and I've actually made some headway on my WIPS!

So, I felt it was safe enough to turn my attention to my computer files to see if there was any tidying up to do there.

Uh... yeah.

I'm always surprised at how much stuff I can accumulate, whether it's yarn or fabric or books, or magazines. Or recipes or patterns or craft projects in my files or - sigh, I just can't get away from it. Thankfully it's a lot easier to clear out this kind of clutter in my computer files than it is in the real world. What I want (and definitely need) right now is storage. Cupboards and pantry, closets, hard drive, never seem to have enough of any of them.

(How much easier would my life be with a delete button?)

But, I digress -

More storage space aside, I've never wanted or needed for much of anything in life. Just what I want and need. When I want and need it.                                                                          

Take T.V. shows for instance.

Neither Himself or I watch much T.V. anymore. but we want to watch what we want to watch.
When we want to watch it.                                      

                                                                             


For him that means sports and news. Those are easy enough to find online. Local tv channels will live stream their news casts and I've found that the major professional sports leagues and sports channels will live stream through most internet and cable carriers.

He also has several shows that he likes but we aren't always around or just too tired to watch them when they air.

As for me, everything I like is mostly either classic TV, morning (local) news or shopping channels.
Thankfully all of these things are easily found online.

Obviously there is Netflix and Hulu; and there is also Guidebox - http://www.guidebox.com/#!recommended-shows It has a lot of shows on a lot of channels but like Netflix and Hulu you have to purchase many of them.

I was gratified though to find that they all have my favorite classic TV shows like my two favorites Adam 12 and Emergency. (I was never able to make up my mind who I was more madly in love with
Kent McCord ar Randolph Mantooth. Sigh...)


      


But, no we aren't going to be giving up our TV's anytime soon, it is just too comfortable to sit in the living room or in bed in the evening watching the big game or that week's episode of Arrow or Dr. Who. I just like knowing that whatever I want to watch whenever I want to watch it, I can.

My life my way, easy.


Sunday, August 31, 2014

Getting My Act Together - Part 2

I've long known that I have eclectic tastes. Which is fine, keeps things from getting boring. But it can also get a bit out of hand at times too.

So, since I've finally gotten a handle on things house-wise (please God).  I've finally got a chance to organize my hobbies and interests (via the Doo - Dad room and kitchen) as well.

My poor doo - dad room has suffered badly lately. it really is in need of a good cleaning and reorganizing.

And new paint on the walls.                         
And a new ceiling fan.
And new flooring.
And - well you get the idea.

Well, since one chore a day has worked out so well I decided
to organize my crafts like that also.

This is what I came up with -

Monday - knitting
Tuesday - crocheting
Wednesday - needlework
Thursday - sewing
Friday - quilting

Told you I have eclectic tastes.

AND - in between all that keeping up with my blogging          
 and writing my stories and planning family holidays and
celebrations and - ...

Wow, I'm getting tired

Himself has opined that since I have such a back log of projects
I don't need to be going back to Joanne's or Michaels again any time soon.
-                                                                                                       
                                                                                                        
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Sigh... I do love that man, really I do.

But - sometimes..!


                                                          
                                                                                             







Monday, August 25, 2014

Getting my act together



Wash on Monday                                         

Iron on Tuesday

Mend on Wednesday

Churn (or Shop) on Thursday

Clean on Friday

Bake on Saturday

Rest on Sunday

I remember reading that in Little House in the Big Woods and there was a reason or it. If you followed the poem's advice you would have clean clothes for the week and food prep was mostly done so you really could "Rest on Sunday"

Actually, I have arranged my weeks around this sage bit of advice as well. Being able to concentrate on only one chore at a time keeps me from feeling rushed and anxious.

Except for the churning that is. Hence why in our time it has become "Shop on Thursday"

You see, I need the ordered calm from structuring and schedules. It's just so much easier if I can think  //I need to get this done by this time// or  //Today is my day to do this.// Not having to stress and worry and run around like a crazy person trying to get a lot of things done at once has helped my disposition, not to mention the state of the house. Not that things ever approached hoarder status or anything but my health issues and kids and cats; well let's just say things were starting to slip.

And speaking of laundry, I was starting to lose a lot of socks in the dryer; what the heck is up with that anyway??

Himself has a theory that socks are really coat hanger larva.(!) When they are ready to hatch they go and hide in the closet and hatch into coat hangers. Granted, that would explain why we always seem to have so many more hangers then clothes, but I always thought that was because we kept the ones from the stores when we bought new things. I could be wrong? Maybe we should put up a nanny cam in the laundry room. No, with our luck we'd actually catch the little buggers making for the hall closet!


Anyway, back on topic (clears throat), something else that works for me is to tell myself that I cannot do any crocheting, reading, working on the laptop watching videos writing ect. until this is done. Whatever this happens to be at the time.

Granted I just started on this new regime but it's amazing what can be accomplished when you actually do it.

And anything that's going to get me back to my "stuff" quicker is always going to be worth doing anyway.
 


Monday, January 2, 2012

Happy New Year

I've discovered something about myself these past weeks. Even I can be Nutcracker'd out. Five different ones on dvd and comcast on demand as well as the PBS SanFrancisco Ballet. Some of them were wonderful of course, but some of the others, well let's just say, they were not what you'd think of when you think Nutcracker.
Mind, I've always liked it when folks put a different spin on things especially old classics, but making the Christmas party a birthday party and the nutcracker a little doll? What's the point?
It's not the Nutcracker anymore then, it's a completely different ballet. I would rather create something entirely new if that's the case.
For me, I narrowed it down to my top two favorites. Can't do any better then that, it would be like trying to pick my favorite kind of chocolate.
First is the one I saw as a child on tv. It had Baryshnikov and Gelsey Kirkland in 1977. I have that one on Dvd.
The other one I really like is the San Francisco Ballet's from 2007. It takes place in San Fran in 1915 and references the 1915 World's Fair. They really did an outstanding job with it
I've noticed something about myself, I don't want fashionable or trendy anything especially at Christmas. I want homey, comfortable, familiar. in this as well as a lot of other things, Nigella Lawson and I are in complete agreement. Which would explain the shopping spree for her cook books that I've been on lately.
But that's for another post!

Friday, February 11, 2011

Going Seasonal - Clementines

You've probably already had them. They're real popular at Christmas and in salads. (Also known as mandarin oranges.) what I liked was the cute little crate they come in at the grocery store.






(Yes, I'm a sucker for nice packaging.) So of course, I had to tote one home - all five pounds of them.


I sat my treasure on the kitchen counter and went to the internet to consider my options. One of the first recipes I pulled up was Nigella Lawson's Clementine Cake.


And can I tell you - it doesn't have any flour and therefore - no gluten. I'm not sure how you would replace the eggs and almond meal if you couldn't have them but anyway, wow is that cake ever good.

There were enough clementines left to juice and I decided that a recipe for Clementine Beaf would be good for dinner that weekend.

http//www.food.com/recipe/clementine-beef-3756

I may even have to go back for another crate to do this drinks recipe as well -

http//www.yumsugar.com/Happy/Hour/Clementine/Crush-626829

Wonder what's coming in in March?

Saturday, December 18, 2010

Baby, it's (been) cold outside.

Note - the weather has moderated finally, but the weather people are saying that there's more to come in the future.


Yeah, yeah, I know this is Florida. It doesn't get cold in Florida.


Right.


Night time lows in the twenties and daytime highs in the 30's - 40's. Wind chills bringing it down to to the teans and twenties.


Not cold at all is it?


Phooey.


So okay, I'm drawing on my upstate New York roots and bringing out all the treats and tricks that made life not only bearable but actually enjoyable during the winters of my childhood.

Hot beverages- this is a given, everything from hot cocoa to mulled wine. Besides I dislike cold hands and this is te easiest way to warm them when I've been out and about in bad weather especially.

Blankets and throws, especially hand made. Vintage ones from the thrift or antique store work just as well.

Cats (or the favorite pet of your choice) Mine are happy to oblige me by sitting on my feet and keeping them warm.

Baked goods - homemade or bought, your choice. Anything that goes good with the afor- mentioned hot beverages.

My beloved crockpot. This time of year, especially with the new grand baby to Christmas shop for(!), I can't always guarantee that I'll be home in time to make supper so this thing has become my new bff.

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

That time of year again

Okay, after a summer of regrouping, reorganizing, and reassesing, I can sit back on Sept. 1 (something I do practically every year anyway) and realize that my life; in spite of everything I've had to deal with; especially in my childhood; isn't nearly as miserable as I sometimes think. Or maybe miserable is a bit strong nowadays. Himself has indeed worked miracles in renewing my faith in humanity over the years and his family has taught me that being good to each other and minding ones manners can go along way towards fostering good relations with ones relations. In short - people in general do not all suck after all. And that's nice to know.

It's also nice to know that your significant other values you enough that it's perfectly all right with him for you to do whatever is neccesary to maintain your health and well being. I'm telling you for once I got it right with him anyway.

Life; believe it or not; really is good after all.


Sunday, April 25, 2010

summer needlework

Just as I can't deal with anything rich and heavy to eat in the summer time neither can I endure anything thick and woolen to knit or crochet. So mostly I tend to get a good bit of sewing done but now I'm wanting something light and lacy and pretty.


this tank top designed by Doris Chan should do nicely.


The pattern is from Knit and Crochet today and is on their website. I find that show has gone a long way towards reconciling me to no longer having Knitty Gritty.

Saturday, April 24, 2010

going seasonal

I've always liked the idea of doing things by seasons. It just makes sense, after all who wants heavy casseroles and rich cakes in the summer? I always go for citrus fruits in the summer and while some may argue that it isn't quite summer yet it certainly feels like it here in north Florida. Average day time temps are low eighties and nightime average is mid fifties to low sixties.


So, to celebrate my finally being able to shed my sweat shirts and flannel jammies I went exploring in Walmart's (of all places) produce department. And happened upon something that I hadn't seen in quite a while and which made me inordanantly happy-





It's Key lime season here in Florida.


In spite of what most folks outside the state might think we don't always have them in stock in most grocery stores or even at the local farmers market either so when they do appear I try to get a bag or two and try to do both the ubiquitous pie (which let's face it, is ubiquitous because it's so gosh darn good) and something completely different. Maybe a marinade for a steak or grilled chicken. Only Daughter is going to lobby for something with shrimp or seafood and Himself is going to definately want a drink. Hmm, I'm going to have to get another bag or two. Talk about an embarrasment of riches!

Nellie's Key Lime Spritzer

4 oz.s Key Lime Juice

3/4 cup sugar

2 cups white wine or white grape juice

4 cups sparkling mineral water or club soda

Pour sparkling water into a large pitcher. Add sugar, grape juice or wine, and Key Lime juice.

be sure to stir well until sugar is disolved. Pour over ice cubes in tall glasses and garnish with a lime wedge.

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

I want my life back (or yet another rant against those who think they know better)

Why do I have to do this (this gluten free and now dairy free thing) the way "they" say I have to? Just who are "they" anyway? If I want peanut butter toast and a cup of coffee for breakfast or an english muffin with butter and jam or a piece of sour cream coffee cake then by-golly that's just what I'm going to have. BTW, all of those things can easily be made both gluten and dairy free.

Now don't get me wrong, both Himself and I are eating ALOT healthier these days. I've actually eaten more fruits and vegetables in the last six months then I believe I've eaten in the past 40 some-odd years, but honestly, don't these holier then thou goodie-goodies of the allergine free world understand that if a food doesn't taste good or if a particular diet regime does not taste good no one's going to keep with it?

Luckily I've been cooking and baking since I was six (or at least helping my parents at that age.) My mother decided that I could be trusted to do recipes on my own when I was around ten. I sometimes think that Himself decided that I was such a good catch because I could cook and bake! (He, on the other hand, can't be trusted with a can of spagheti-oh's!)

Anyway, the only problem I've had is with figuring out GF yeast breads; they are an entirely differant species of animal from regular wheat flour yeast breads; an entirely different technique is needed to make them come out right. Okay I get that; it may have taken me a minute but I'm getting the hang of that. That's not the problem.

If I don't need to go vegan , or (God help us all) raw foods or macrobiotic then I'm not going to - get over it. Himself and I are dedicated omnivores thank you very much and we would very much like it if folks would leave us alone about it.

Which is why; admittedly in a fit of pique and contrariness; I have decided to start my own Julia Child project. I'm going to, in the coming weeks, try to work my way through the companion book to her series "Baking with Julia". And of course converting all the recipes in the series to being gluten free.

So there. And if I want to end a day of baking not-exactly -the healthiest -things in- the- world to -consume baked goods with treating us both to a steak and some baked potatoes (alright I'll do a salad as well but only because Himself likes them so much) then that's what I'm going to do.

In the mean time lets kick the rebelion off with a couple of longed for treats - Red lobster Chedder Bay biscuits and Pork Bao Buns. (Recipes coming as soon as I can make up some more of my gf biscuit mix.)

Saturday, January 23, 2010

I know from cold

It has been cold down here in North Florida, same as everywhere else around the country these past couple of weeks. This week has been alot more moderate though. We got all the way up to 65!
Okay, now that it's safe to come out from hiding under the desk, I've got to say in our defence that this would not be the first time that the whole state's citrus crop was threatened with being killed off by freazing weather. And many times it has been.
Which is why I've been crocheting slippers; made with cozy Lion brand Wool Ease yarn in Chestnut Heather and trimmed with Lion Jiffy in Parfait. I love them; they remind me of nothing more then chocolate peppermint bark at Christmas. Which is why I'm in the kitchen baking again, because nothing warms and "cozies" up the house like baked goods; not to mention I'm down to the heel of my gf bread! Not a good thing when I love peanut butter toast and a steming cup of tea on a "cold winter morning like this! (snerk)

Thursday, December 10, 2009

Oh Pooey

I just read another bloggers piece about how he hates the holidays and all the noise and expence and crass comersialsm. I can agree with that - up to a point. I don't like it when all those things get in the way of, or make us completely forget the reason for the season. (For all you evil minded athiests out there who are trying to get me to understand that there really isn't any God after all, I think that I'd far rather be wrong about there being a God then come to find out that He is real and ending up someplace I DO NOT want to spend eternity in because I was just too self absorbed and wanting to do whatever I wanted and hang the consequences.


Christmas is meant to celebrate Christ's birth - get over it.



But to me that means *not* spending half a year's salary on presents and the geting up at 3:00 am (!) on black friday and NOT giving a hang what anyone else thinks about my not wanting to be around people or things that drive me bonkers or that I out right detest. I'm just not able to put up with people or things that agravate me anymore; at any time of the year. My kids accuse me of getting old and cranky but I beg to differ - I've been that way my whole life; I'm only just now getting the nerve to act on it. And Himself thanks me for it because he's always been a bit of a hermit as well.

But no matter what way to celebrate the season suits your tastes' from Hinmself and I - A Merry Christmas and happy New Year. "God bless us, everyone!"

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Some Websites I've Found Usefull

I've got a Big book mark folder. It covers everthing from needlecraft to food and cooking websites, history travel and writing and literature. Right now though, I'm finding alot of gluten free websites and blogs that have been a lot of help to me. When I first decided to go gluten free, I was still a little hesitant because I didn't want to have to give up all the things I loved (baked goods especially). I'm relieved to find that that won't be necesarry. And that's thanks to recipezaar.com and betterbatter.com to start with; talk about a treasure trove. I've found GF recipes for everything from Auntie Ann's pretzels to Bisquick mix. Also Karin Alldrich with her Karina's Kitchen blog has been a big help as well.
English muffins and Irish soda bread! I hope all these great bloggers out there know how much the rest of us appreciate all their efforts and advice.

Thursday, October 22, 2009

What I'm working on now

I'm indulging in a little of what my grandmother would have called "fancy work". Although I think that term technically means any kind of intricate hierloom sewing like with wedding gowns and baby clothes and such. But Nanny used it to mean any kind of crocheting or knitting that would make most people ooh and ahh over your finished piece (You *made* that !? I'd go blind trying to just read the pattern!) Or really anything that gives you bragging rights.

But just between you and me? This one's really easy, just chains, single, double and triple crochet stiches. I now realize that as much as I might enjoy knitting my true metier is crocheting. After all Nanny taught me how to when I was six, and I only took up knitting three years ago.

She also taught me that being able to do something that impresses your friends is never a bad thing either.

This pattern is from the July 2009 issue of Crochet Magazine. If anyone wants a copy of it let me know.


(And if I really wanted to show off I'd tell about the blouse and skirt I'm going to make to go with it, but I won't. Nanny hated braggerts!)








Monday, October 19, 2009

Playing Catch-Up

It's pretty amazing what having a little energy will do for a person. The Fall House Cleaning (a habit I picked up from living in base housing) is almost done and on time too! Many thanks to Only Daughter and her fiance J. for doing the refrigerator and freazer. Now just a litle more dusting and mopping and we can start planning for all the fall holidays that we all love so much.

Also, I'm finally caught up on my knitting and crocheting (3 more wip's to finish up the last bits of but that will take maybe a weekend) 9/10ths the fun of finishing project is the fact that you can now start another with a completely clear concience.
Going gluten free has even helped with my sewing and crafting! Who knew?

Monday, July 6, 2009

Well, isn't that a kick in the pants

Update : Oct 14, 2009

Yeah well, that was just plain rude to say the least for me to just drop off the face of the planet like that but I have a (somewhat) legitimate reason for it.

I've been sick. Not the kind of sick that requires a trip to the hospital but the kind of sick that makes you dread getting up to make dinner or even climb out of bed in the morning. Sounds like depression doesn't it? Well that is one of the off shoots of Celiac disease (the inability of the body to process gluten found in wheat, rye and barley.

These particular problems (G. I. issues, general malaise, some depression- more on *that* later.) I've had to deal with in one form or another for as far back as I can remember. After reading Molly Wiezenberg's wonderful Orangette blog and through that Shauna James Ahern's Guten Free Girl blog, the light bulb clicked on and I did some digging around of my own. So that's what been the matter for oh around 40 (!) years!

I went to the doctor and got the blood test as well as some other tests he wanted to do including for thyroid problems (oh joy!). And guess what they all came back negative! "No worries" he says, "we'll do a biopsy of your small intestine." (!?) "We-eeel okay I guess, but when can you do that?" "Three weeks from now." he said cheerfully. "So I'll have to keep on eating gluten for at least another three weeks so as not to skew the test results?" "Yup" "Tell you what Doc, how about I just go gluten free and call you back in three weeks to let you know if it's working or not?" He considered for a moment and said "That works too" So I did and it did (work that is) and I've been gluten free ever since the 1st of September.

Shows you how much damage had been done over the course of 45 yrs though, it's taken this long for all the different symptoms to finally clear up.

Now if I can only figure out GF yeast bread.....


Saturday, April 18, 2009

Me Himself and I

Himself and I, circa August 2007


April 16th was our 25th wedding anniversary. Honestly I must have blinked, because I just can't realize it. But I still think that the smartest thing I ever did was to marry that sweet man.

Here's some pics of us then and notice how young and svelte we *were*! Sigh I was an atractive young woman once, *before* the children came!


Us in May 1984. That's the Golden Gate Bridge
I was 4 months along with Oldest Son


Me circa April 1983, Oaknoll Naval Hospital,
Oakland, Ca.

Himself (he was a Corporal at the time)
On the flightline at NAS Alameda, July 1983



















Monday, March 23, 2009

wish me luck

So now I'm starting something that I always dreamed of doing. I'm planning out a spring wardrobe. (and in the fall it will be my new winter wardrobe) I know who does stuff like that anymore? But I've always wondered if the Good Lord didn't plunk me down into the wrong era. I love any and all things, vintage and antique from books and magazines, comic strips
clothing, recipes and especially interior design.

I have to laugh at all the folks who are reacting to the economy like it's another Great Depression. Honey this ain't no depression. When unemployment goes to 25% and milk is $6.00 a gallon then I'll start paying atention to the gloom and doom talk.

So what's this got to do with sewing a new wardrobe? (Shrugs) It's what you did when you didn't have the money to buy a whole new set of clothes every season. Until the late sixties that is when the feminazies (Do Not get me started about those, ahem, *ladies*) decreed that all home arts especially cooking, knitting and sewing were degrading to women and the only way to restore our dignity was to stop doing them (or get even with those awful men and make them do them) I'm also convinced that we have become so prosperess as a country that we've become lazy. Why sew something when it's so much easier to go to the mall and buy it?

(Shakes head)


Anyway, hopefully I'll have my dress cut out by tonight and the skirt I'm crocheeting will be done by next week at the latest, then I need to start on the shawl to match and pick out the patern for the camisole to go with it. Then we'll see about a skirt and blouse a well.

(And if Ican cheese off some "feminazies" in the mean time even better!)